1. What have you included in this video? 2. Explain how different parts of the video relate to your way of life.
In my video I included the birthdays of family and friends, pictures of family and friends and everything else I love in my life. Birthdays are important to me because they are the birth dates of people I love and would be hurt to lose. They represent the days that they were brought into the world and that day is a very special day, that is the day that they started their life where I am included. I provided pictured of my family and friends because they are the most important people in my life. I would not have the life I have if it weren’t for the support from my family and friends. Sure there are people out there who don’t care about me but I know I will always have certain people to always depend on if I ever needed everything and that is a very important aspect of my life. In the “everything else” section of my video, I have pictures of my extended family (sister in law’s family and dogs). I love animals and I have plenty of pictures of four different dogs in my life, they are each special to me and I would be very sad to lose them. I also have pictures and videos of the time spent at the property my extended family has upstate. I love it up there and that will always be an important part of my life. The air is much better than the air in New York City, it is not polluted by multiple different fumes. It is very nice to go up there and just relax.
3. What’s seems good about your way of life? What’s bad? What’s neutral?
Good- My life has many twists to it, there are many things in my life that people wouldn’t expect from me based on my race. For example, people normally would not have guessed that I have a Caucasian sister in law therefore granting me many privileges that other Asian children have. My mom is a very traditional person but when my sister in law was brought into the family nine years ago, my mom eased up a little bit and I now have more privileges but also more responsibilities. I am still expected to do good in life and bring pride to the family but I am not expected to bust my ass over school work. When I get too stressed out my mom understands and allows me to have a little time to myself rather than some Asian moms who force their children to study every night and expects them to get 100% averages.
Bad- My life is not what it may seem. I seems that I live a pretty relaxed life but truthfully, my life is just as stressful as anyone else’s. I have to deal with everyday problems that probably every single teenager is dealing with. For example, school grades, I am definitely not doing good in your class but I am very stressed out in trying to make up all my work before you close them on November 1st now that I finally got my blogger to work. I have yet to post up my video because it is not working on my computer. I am currently trying to do it in school and with Jacara. There is also the parent factor; every teenager in the world is dealing with their parents. Most teens are rebellious and have many issues with their parents while some others, mostly Asians, are dealing with the disappointment from their parents because they did not bring home respectable grades from school. I am stuck dealing with both situations, I am rebellious in ways that I feel is correct in my mind but not in others, such as my curfew. Like most teens I am not happy with my curfew and try to argue it but never come to an agreement. I am also dealing with the grades, my family knows me as a good student because I am able to get myself together and pull my grades up but my grades have been slipping since I entered high school. This may seem typical and like sucking up to you to bring my grade up but to tell you the truth I’ve been busting my ass for your class, I have never worked so hard for a class before and I know I am most definitely not doing well but I am willing to do whatever it takes to pull my grade up. Yes this sounds typical but this is coming from the heart, I beat myself up when I and unable to accomplish things and your class has beaten me down the most.
Neutral- Nothing seems to stay neutral in my life. I guess I would have to say my daily routine stays the same. Wake up, school, afterschool, home, repeat. In the summer, wake up, go out with friends or go to work, go home, repeat.
4. What would you have liked to have included, that is important to your way of life, but weren’t able to?
I would have wanted to include pictures of my dad and some of my Chinese traditions into my video. I was not able to because I am not close with my dad because I hardly see him and I have not been able to catch any of my Chinese traditions on camera. If I ever get a chance I will try to show you some of the things that we do on our special days. Chinese traditions are very important to my way of life because my family wants to practice them all the time and keep the traditions going. Yes, over the years some of the traditions have started to slip and seem less and less important, such as the full moon. Yearly there is a certain time of year where we pray to the moon with special moon cakes, incense, and fruit. But this year my mom bought the cakes but was too lazy to care to pray. This is one tradition that slipped from our hand this year. One tradition that will never disappear in my opinion is Chinese New Year. This time of year is just as important to us as New Years is as important to everyone else.
ANALYSIS & INSIGHT
5. What’s going on with your way of life? What seems to be the general pattern or direction or point or situation?
I do not see a general pattern in my way of life. Things are constantly changing and I am constantly changing. My attitude is always changing; the attitude of others against me is always changing. If I were to find a pattern, I would say that was the pattern, that my life and everyone and everything in it along with the important aspects are always changing.
6. How do the good, bad, and neutral in your way of life fit together?
None of it fits together, that is why my life is so hard. Everything is clashing together, at the end of the day, everything is not ok. There are always worries and fears and stress.
7. Does your way of life seem like a “typical American Way of Life”? Why or why not?
My way of life is definitely not the American way of life. I have to juggle school with family, family values, high expectations and multiple traditions that need to be followed. I would say the American way of life would just be juggling school with family and expectations. None of all the extra stuff. I would like to say that ALL ASIANS DO NOT LIVE A TYPICAL AMERICAN WAY OF LIFE, but of course I cannot judge the life of other people solely based on my own interpretation of my life.
8. What aspects of your way of life seem really interesting to you – you’d like to think about them more deeply, figure out how this sort of thing developed historically, what’s going to happen to this aspect of your way of life within your lifetime? What questions do you have about these really interesting aspects of your way of life?How did it happen that I can not do any “real” work and still live so easily? Who is doing the real work for me? In what ways is my life now reliant on complicated and ultimately fragile social arrangements?
Interesting/ questions– how I live it. How I interpret it. How others interpret it.
What’s going to happen? – I really honestly don’t know things can change in the blink of an eye.
I live easy because I am not an adult yet. I have all the support and help of family and friends.
I am very reliant on the support of the people in my life. I love them all dearly and will not trade their support for anything. If I didn’t have them constantly on my back and helping me, I would have fallen apart a long time ago and would never put myself back together.